My Insurance Company is Making Me Mad

It is not the way that I want to play it, but it is looking a lot like my insurance company is going to make me take them to court. That is all a big waste of time for me and for them, but they just do not want to give in even a little. I suppose that if I found the right Sacramento personal injury lawyer they would probably settle right away, but of course I am interested in my own bottom line. I am pretty sure that does not get helped very much when you have to share the settlement with a lawyer. The idea is obviously to end up with all of the money I need to pay all of my bills and it would not kill me if I got a little extra for pain and suffering or whatever it is that you want to call it. (more…)

I Learned a Lot at the Chiropractor’s Office

It is never fun going to any kind of doctor, even if it is just for a checkup. At least, that is what I used to think. When my wife had to go see a Philadelphia chiropractor for a sore neck, I went with her because she has an aversion to doctors of any kind. I was mainly there just to provide comfort for her, but I ended up learning a lot. There was a lot of information in the waiting room. Even though we did not have to wait long to see the chiropractor on that first visit, I was still able to learn a lot just from the pamphlets that were in there.

I learned even more once we met with the chiropractor. (more…)

Finding a Place to Freely Express Your Language of Desire

After several years of marriage, while happy and content with what we had in life, my husband and I participated in a relationship building seminar where we could learn to express our language of desire free of judgement and shame. Admittedly, we had gotten a bit complacent with our sexual relationship and took for granted that we would have sex on certain days at certain times and that we would be satisfied. Our life in general, as well as our sex life had become a bit routine.

The seminar was held in another town, far from where we lived and worked, which helped lessen inhibitions. (more…)

I Wanted to Become My Own Boss and Be in Charge of My Own Paycheck

I wanted to find a company who would offer a cheap Windows VPS so that I could get my own business up and running. I had been working for the same company doing sales for 11 years, and there was no chance for me to move up. I need the ability to make a path to becoming a manager, but it just wasn’t possible if I stayed at the same company. I knew that I had no other choice but to branch out on my own. I figured that i would give myself a year of being my own boss to see if I could cut it. It would be an adventure, and I was looking forward to it.

I am a hard worker, and my boss at my last company knew it. But he was in it for the long haul, and he said many times that he had no interest in moving on unless he became very ill or passed away. His intent was to stay with the company until he retired. I admired that in him because he had staying power. (more…)

It Was Time for Me to Start Doing What I Wanted to Do Again

Being a person who loved the sun and water, I have no idea how I ended up with a guy who had no interest in it. I had been dating him for about 3 years, and I found myself ready to move on and be on my own. I wasn’t particularly interested in dating anyone. I simply wanted to be happy in life again. I purchased some new swimwear as a celebration gift to myself for realizing that I was deserving of a better life, and most certainly, a better partner in life. I wanted to be able to hit the beach and do all the things that I consider to be a lot of fun.

Before I had a chance to go do anything in my new swimsuit, I was invited to a pool party. I hadn’t been to one in years. I was really excited about it. It would give me a chance to see all my old friends, who I had neglected for far too long because I was so focused on my past relationship with my boyfriend. I was also looking forward to the possibility of meeting some new friends as well. It had been far too long for both of these things in my eyes.

The party I went to was a turning point for me. I had so much fun there that day and night. It really proved to me that it is important not to neglect your friends. I even made some new acquaintances and hoped they would turn into friendships over time. One of my oldest friends that night, and we had a chance to catch up with one another. She said that she missed going to the beach with me like we used to do in our college days, so we decided to go together the very next day.